1) Civilities or amenities 2) Courtesy 3) Elegance of manner 4) French word used in English 5) Good manners 6) Polish, of sorts 7) Polished courtesy 8) The quality of being urbane 1) Courtesy 2) Suaveness 
Urbanity ur·ban·i·ty /ˌərˈbanitē/ noun 1. suavity, courteousness, and refinement of manner. 2. urban life. refers to the characteristics, personality traits, and viewpoints associated with cities and urban areas. People who can be described as having urbanity are also referred to as citified. The word is related to the Latin urbanitas with ...
• (n.) The quality or state of being urbane; civility or courtesy of manners; politeness; refinement. • (n.) Polite wit; facetiousness.
[n] - polished courtesy
noun polished courtesy; elegance of manner
the quality of being urbane; refined courtesy or politeness; suavity: He was the last word in urbanity. · civilities or amenities. · the quality or state of being urban.